Control is an Illusion

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At least when it comes to depression, control is an illusion. We can be aware of it, reduce the impacts, and put it into remission, but control? No, never complete control. Depression is much like some physical diseases. It will appear to be controlled for months or even years, then unexpectedly flare-up, destroying any apparent control you have over your illness. The most dangerous time for someone with chronic depression is when they think the…




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