Strike the ‘might’ from this sentence. In the real world of parenting, kids take 100% of your time, but you need 100% of your time to do all the things you were doing before you had children. So, everyone who can’t afford a domestic staff is a hot mess parent. Either that or they completely ignore their responsibility to the kids and other parent, I have known both men and woman who fall into this category which makes life even more of a mess for the person left with the kids.